Trust v.s. Insecurities

Thinking:

Every relationship needs privacy; not to be mistaken for an opportunity to abuse trust.

Privacy of feelings, emotions, and thoughts at times. "Privacy' of hiding your phone will cause the question of abuse of that granted trust. People often neglect the idea that they exhibit changes in behavior when unhappy and underestimate their mates ability to notice.

Privacy of thoughts is important as its normally the only place people get to escape. Until the escape imprisons. 

Insecurities can easily break up a relationship. I agree with the notion of wanting your mate to share feelings, thoughts, and emotions involving you, but its also critical to let your mate have their space to sort out those things. Insecurities would let you desire and push for that explanation (goes both ways). 

Whose at fault for insecurities? Is it the mate thats bottled up and portraying signs of infidelity and seclusion? Or is it the mate that is worried about those signs of reservation? BOTH!

A relationship, or strong relations, is a partnership. Both parties have to equally invest on all levels. By equally I mean 58-42... 60-40...55-45. I just don't believe 50/50 exists.

 

(Unfinished. To be revisited with feedback)